Logisitcs

I have so much to do in so little time! We are heading to Seattle in two weeks. Jacob and I are going to be there for four months. The details of relocating are overwhelming me right now. I'm so thankful that my in-laws will help out caring for Ethan and my parents are going to drive our car all the way to Seattle. Both of those are BIG helps! There are still a lot of things I'm trying to work out. To start off, I've never flown with a child before and all the extra gear that will require: stroller, car seat, his own luggage, my own luggage, carry-ons, etc. How am I supposed to keep track of everything and carry it?? And let's throw on top of that, Jacob is a child that needs to be protected from airport and airplane germs, needs medications transported, some of which need to be refrigerated (how am I supposed to do that? Would TSA let me pack a cooler? Getting through security is going to be a nightmare.)... masks, anti bacterial wipes, Purell...Housing is also stressing me out. I wanted to get an apartment at the Ronald McDonald House, but it turns out, we'd have to be in communal housing (shared kitchen and laundry room) until Jacob is discharged. Then they would try to move us to the apartment style, self contained housing for BMT patients, if there is one open (they only have 10 of those). I'm not sure I want to do the communal housing thing, although the RMH is closest to the hospital. The other option would be to get into the Pete Gross apartments, which are closest to the out-patient clinic. Although they didn't look as nice as the RMH, we'd have our own apartment, with laundry, full kitchen, and a separate bedroom & sleeper couch, from the get go. Breathe, Kylene, breathe....

Ok, here is the tentative schedule of what REALLY matters most: Jacob starts his out-patient work ups on January 31st. The work ups will last for about two weeks. If he is found healthy enough, he will be admitted on February 16th to start five days of chemotherapy and then one rest day before his transplant on February 22nd. He will be in-patient for about 3-4 weeks after transplant while waiting for engraftment to take place. If he is stable after engraftment, then he will be discharged and followed closely through out-patient visits until 100 days post transplant. After that, we will be able to come home to continue his care. Once again, he will be pretty isolated for his own protection. It will take about a year for his immune system to recover. I can't believe that Ethan will be almost done with 1st grade and Jacob will be almost 5 years old by the time we can (hopefully) resume a normal family life. I just really can't wait until Jacob gets to come to church with us every week. He will love singing songs in Primary and making new friends in his class. I can't wait for him to be able to spend the day at Disneyland or to be able to go on vacation with us, or simply just to have friends over to play. That goes for Ethan, too. He hasn't been able to have friends over either since Jacob's first BMT. I'm so glad that the two of them are best friends. I can't imagine how lonely Jacob would be without his big brother! Maybe Jacob will get his line out this summer and actually be able to get his tummy wet in the bathtub or in a kiddie pool. In April, he will have had his central line for an entire year. I want Jacob to be able to play on the beach or go camping with his dad or simply just to play at the park or go to preschool. It's been way too long since he's really been able to have any rich experiences. Considering Jacob was diagnosed when he was only 15 months old, this has been a very long and strenuous trial for our family. But, the future is bright! We have been given this miracle through bone marrow transplantation and through amazingly generous people on the National Marrow Donor Registry. It still blows me away how selfless and good people truly are. This precious soul, who doesn't even know us, is willing to sacrifice his time and comfort to save our son. If you are interested in being on the registry, visit bethematch.org to see if you qualify. Registration is free for the month of January.